Caring & sharing #121

Dear Agony Aunts

It’s not always been easy to keep cheerful, what with the back trouble & the shipyard closing down, but I’ve tried to put on a bright face for the wife & kids.

Now I think I’ve overdone it because she’s talking about leaving me if I don’t “get off (your) fat ass & get a job” – & me with a bad back as well.

Over the past 17 years, what with the sick notes & the yard closing I have tried hard not to get under her feet, & have spent many long hours just moping around in the pub so that she could have some quality personal space & bond better with the kids – & this is the thanks that I get!

How can I make her see that she is being unreasonable?

“George”

 

Dear “George”

We’d strongly recommend suicide.

‘Bye.

Aunts

Love can be no tougher....
Love can be no tougher….

 

View from a Rhino House: this is sad; it will make you think, not smile

In Belgium, identical twin brothers who were born deaf, had become blind & were unable to bear not being able to communicate freely with each other, had their wish to die granted by a Court in Brussels. Doctors gave the 45-year-old twins lethal injections after they had had a cup of coffee together & said goodbye to each other, a spokesman at the UZ hospital in Brussels, said yesterday.

“It’s not just because they were deaf & blind that they were granted the right to euthanasia. It is that they could not bear being unable to hear or see the other,” he said.

To be granted legal assisted euthanasia in Belgium a patient must be an adult, capable of making a judgment, & the wish to die must be voluntary, overwhelming & repeated. The patient must also be suffering persistent & unbearable mental or physical pain beyond medical help.

In addition, the condition must be serious, incurable & have been brought on by illness or injury.

“Unbearable suffering can be mental as well as physical,” the hospital spokesman said. “The brothers were inseparable. They lived together & shared the same job.”

He said the brothers died on 14th December & that their family had supported their wish to die.

Belgium legalized euthanasia ten years ago & the number of legal assisted deaths has risen every year. In 2011, 1,133 people were granted the right to die, of whom over 86% were 60 years old or more; 72% of the total number were suffering from cancer.

The Netherlands & Luxembourg have both decriminalized euthanasia, but apart from Belgium only Switzerland allows assisted suicide, & then only if the person concerned takes an active role.

Every part of this story is sad, except perhaps for the twins who are no longer suffering.

RIP
RIP

Sometimes a puppy IS just for Christmas Day….

In the end, the whole Christmas, post-lunch thing just got too much for Rex who decided to end it all....
In the end, the whole Christmas, post-lunch thing just got too much for Rex who decided to end it all….